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I am tired of all the deceit and lies. I fell in love with another woman. No it wasn't right to do this to my family but it just happened. People don't plan these things but life does happen and some times when you aren't looking. I have been with my mistress for many years and the way she loves me is amazing. I can't stop thinking about her and it gets better every day. I know she doesn't love her husband and has wanted me to leave for a long time. Like i said, i love her and she's asking me to leave my wife which i'm ready to do. The only problem is I have quite a bit of money tied up in my business ventures, land, camps, our home, and of course our children. That is where I keep running into the problem of actually being able to do this. I know I won't see them as much and could possibly have her kids more than my own. I'm being torn here and I just don't know which way to go....No wise ass comments please or no judgments. I just would like some good sincere advice on what to do?? Thank you.